Am I gay?
This is a great question. Actually, it is quite a difficult question to answer and seems to distress a lot of guys. And in the end, it’s a question you’ll have to answer for yourself. Whatever you decide and whatever you discover, be sure that you’re a worthwhile person. Believing in yourself, whatever you make that self to be, is the most important thing.
Young people have growing independence and self-worth. There are still large numbers of young men who have been brought up to believe that gays are sissy, limp-wristed, disgusting and immoral. You may be one of these guys. You may feel very distressed if anyone questions your sexual orientation. They might be very worried about it if they have any doubts about sexual identity themselves.